All of the sudden, we were a grown-up married couple! Like little figures in a doll's house, we sat there dazed, in awe, wishing a chubby little arm would pass through a window and move us around, tell us what to do. We would have given anything for a magnificent child to show us how to be husband and wife. Jalina Mhyana
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Melody is reflecting back on how she and Kevin were changed after they got married. They were happy to start this new life together, but they were gripped by fear of losing each other. Melody wanted to feel like a grown up, like someone who is ready to take on the responsibility of being a wife and mother. She was scared that her relationship with Kevin was not strong enough yet for her to be the kind of person who would be willing to take on this role.

Melody wanted Kevin to give her that kind of strength, but he was unsure himself. His attitude is telling us that it’s okay to feel scared and confused about being married because nothing in life is easy or perfect all of the time. People are going to change, grow, and have different interests as they get older so it’s okay to feel scared about marriage if you don't feel ready for it.

Source: Dreaming In Night Vision: A Story In Vignettes

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